Happy Hump Day!
Yesterday a guy friend of mine told me he was a "freak." Don't ask me how we got on that subject...something about TMI Tuesday I believe ;)
Anyway, for some reason, I didn't believe him. I think I conjure up a certain image in my brain when someone tells me they're a freak...and I'm not sure it's a good one :)
In our discussion yesterday, we said size was relative. Well, I think being considered a freak is all relative too. When someone says they're a freak, what does that mean? Does that mean they like to try different things in bed? Taboo things? Wild things? Does it mean a woman is a ho or a man likes to pull hair or spank you?
Here's a question - is being considered a freak a good thing? A compliment? An insult? I guess it depends on what your definition of a freak is.
When most people tell me they're a freak, it almost sounds like a warning to me. I instantly think, "what the hell are they up to?"
One guy told me he likes to choke women while having sex.
(Yikes!...actually more like "WTF?")
But is that being a freak...or being violent? If you're a woman who likes being choked, are you a freak...or are you nuts? Personally, I don't think being choked out is on the freaky side...to me it's more on the "Chris Brown" side. But hey, that's just me.
One woman told me that her man said she was a freak because she was loud during sex. If that's his idea of a freak, I told her she should go home and spank his ass with a wooden spoon or smack him in the face with a bag full of nickels during sex and see if he still thinks that being loud is equal to being a freak :-) To me, being a loud lover isn't being a freak at all. If she was vocal because it was THAT good, then that's just a reaction...that doesn't make her a freak does it?
Maybe my idea of someone who's a freak is too extreme. If you try to spank me with rubber chickens, or if you have sex with mutant lesbian midgets who zap your nipples with Annamaria's taser...then you might be a freak :) But hey, that's just my opinion :)
Someone once told me that they think R. Kelly is a freak because he likes to give "golden showers" to girls.
Maybe.
But to me, he's not a freak...he's a pedophile. A mentally unstable one.
If you have sex with animals, you're not a freak...you're just nasty. And crazy.
If you're a man who has a thing for wearing diapers and likes to get spanked by "mommy"...then you might be a freak. Or you might be just plain simple.
Being sexually adventurous, spontaneous, open to new things - none of that is freaky to me. But if you take it to the point where you physically harm, embarrass, exploit or disrespect someone, then that's something else. Some may say that there's a thin line between being "freaky" and being INSANE...but to me, the lines are clear.
So let's hear it...
What do you think makes a man/woman a freak?
Is being a freak considered a good or bad thing in your opinion? Compliment or insult...and why?
And lastly, are you a freak? Let's see if y'all tell the truth :-)
-b
