When is it alright for a friend to become a friend with benefits?
How do you know if you want this man or women to be more than just a friend? This is hard to decide and everyone is different when it comes to them. So here is my story: My ex and I had just broken up and I was all upset like most females are who has put time into a relationship just so the man can cheat...... Sorry back to my story... So I met him during spring semester. I was walking in my building when he stopped me asked me my name and I told him. We then began talking and he proceeded to follow me to the computer lab when we then became facebook friends. We talked as friends for about a month or so. We would hangout as friends but nothing serious. Then one day we was talking on the phone and after we got off I for some reason could not stop smiling. I began to think about how we connected as friends and started to see him as a cutie. So the next time we went out I went for it!!! I was putting on the girlie charm. I started flirting and feeling on him and he responded just how I wanted. We went back to his place and I kissed him and after that you all know what happen, no need for more details.... But it was fun to have a friend I could hang out with and to have sex with and we both was on the same page as far as we did not want to go any further than that in this type of relationship. My question to my readers is when is it alright to make a friend a lover and how would you ended it if it gets too far?
