Dear Fury,
Last year I attended a pleasure party and purchased my first sex toy. Since then I enjoyed it so much, I now have a large collection of toys. My problem is I am now addicted to them and use them at least three times a day - sometimes more! It has come to the point where I even use them in the ladies room at work, I carry one with me all the time! I'm not interested in men anymore either - my toys are all I need and I don't go out on dates, or even have the desire to. Is this normal? Something must be wrong with me - help!
Sincerely,
Addicted!
Dear Addicted,
You seem to have the mother load of self pleasure, I'm certain some of the women on the blog would like to have a toy that makes them feel that damn good!
Seriously, having a healthy self pleasure ritual is important to having a healthy sex life. You get to learn what you like and then pass that information on to others. If you want to enjoy yourself, more power to you. Just remember, those toys cannot and will not take the true place of intimacy with a partner. Ain't nothing like the real thing baby! Nothing is wrong with you, but you are falling into the 21st century trap of immediate gratification. Text, Twitter and 24 hour news makes us all want everything immediately and not want to work for it.
However, toys will never ever disappoint you! God knows it is the safest possible sex you can have. I understand. It's a phase and you're allowed to work your way through it (wink). But I hope one day you'll return to the fold and allow a worthy man to savor in all of your sexy goodness as you savor in his.
I know several women (regular professionals you wouldn't suspect) who regularly carry their toys with them in their purse all the time and a few who have admitted to using their toys in the bathroom at work.
(fellas those bathrooms have got to be a hotbed of sex toy fun).
PLEASE don't get caught at work. Try to refrain from doing it there if you can.
In Brazil, a woman won a court ruling that allows her to masturbate in the bathroom at work because of an anxiety disorder! You're not her. You could lose your job. Watch out for that.
You say the toys are "all you need"...for now...but know there's more out there, but enjoy it while you're doing it.
Shameless plug - if you're looking for new toys, a new feature of my site will be toy reviews by a very unsuspecting, professional woman who has volunteered her body for the testing. *smirks*
They call me The Fury and I am master of my own domain...and others' as well...
--The Fury
http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com
http://www.twitter.com/dirtydetails
http://dirtydetails.tumblr.com/
Last year I attended a pleasure party and purchased my first sex toy. Since then I enjoyed it so much, I now have a large collection of toys. My problem is I am now addicted to them and use them at least three times a day - sometimes more! It has come to the point where I even use them in the ladies room at work, I carry one with me all the time! I'm not interested in men anymore either - my toys are all I need and I don't go out on dates, or even have the desire to. Is this normal? Something must be wrong with me - help!
Sincerely,
Addicted!
Dear Addicted,You seem to have the mother load of self pleasure, I'm certain some of the women on the blog would like to have a toy that makes them feel that damn good!
Seriously, having a healthy self pleasure ritual is important to having a healthy sex life. You get to learn what you like and then pass that information on to others. If you want to enjoy yourself, more power to you. Just remember, those toys cannot and will not take the true place of intimacy with a partner. Ain't nothing like the real thing baby! Nothing is wrong with you, but you are falling into the 21st century trap of immediate gratification. Text, Twitter and 24 hour news makes us all want everything immediately and not want to work for it.
However, toys will never ever disappoint you! God knows it is the safest possible sex you can have. I understand. It's a phase and you're allowed to work your way through it (wink). But I hope one day you'll return to the fold and allow a worthy man to savor in all of your sexy goodness as you savor in his.
I know several women (regular professionals you wouldn't suspect) who regularly carry their toys with them in their purse all the time and a few who have admitted to using their toys in the bathroom at work.
(fellas those bathrooms have got to be a hotbed of sex toy fun).
PLEASE don't get caught at work. Try to refrain from doing it there if you can.
In Brazil, a woman won a court ruling that allows her to masturbate in the bathroom at work because of an anxiety disorder! You're not her. You could lose your job. Watch out for that.
You say the toys are "all you need"...for now...but know there's more out there, but enjoy it while you're doing it.
Shameless plug - if you're looking for new toys, a new feature of my site will be toy reviews by a very unsuspecting, professional woman who has volunteered her body for the testing. *smirks*
They call me The Fury and I am master of my own domain...and others' as well...
--The Fury
http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com
http://www.twitter.com/dirtydetails
http://dirtydetails.tumblr.com/
